Falling in love can be wonderful, we imagine ourselves in heaven on earth. Pity the tide always turns. If it becomes clear that the man we fell in love with is not as wise
as we expected. Or the woman not as desirable, our golden projection can change from one minute to the other to a black one. Especially when it is about love at first sight, we better be prepared. The first period as lovers we have fun, we make
love, eat, drink and sleep together. It seems we are in paradise. But then she starts claiming him or he wants to posses her and his or/and her jealousy bring them back to earth. He thinks she became boring because he feels claimed and does not realize that
his own anima, his own feminine pole can also be pretty boring and sulking. The problem is that her nagging voice is evident, while his nagging is still unconscious. He has no idea how discontented his own soul is and reproaches his loved one because
she disturbs the romance. She in her turn, became without knowing, the prisoner of her jealous animus who projects his/her mistrust on her lover. Constantly she is afraid her lover will meet another woman he will like better than her. The joke is that both
can be right. But if he does not know about his own moody anima and she has no idea of her own unfaithful animus, the danger is that they reproach each other what they better could face together. Our mistrust can become so enormous, that we as lovers become
too afraid of each other to be in one room. We are transformed into a monster and a witch, who poison each others’ lives.